I stood in the kitchen pondering the winter world through my window; what wasn’t brown and grey was grey and brown. Sunless days had lumped into a lead weight in my head. What a fine moment for a poet’s melancholy, and then I looked up. Darn. There was Grandpa Mauck, looking out from his winter day, telling me to get real!
You might know the movie “A Christmas Story,” dear reader, set in Hohman, Indiana, which was really Hammond, Indiana, where I was born. This is Hammond. Grandpa was a Borden milkman there. A milkman! What mystique! What could be more enviable than riding a sled behind horses delivering milk in freezing temperatures?
Grandpa left Borden for a so-called better job, but all he had then was a lot of paper and people working for him. Boring.
Meanwhile, I was growing up in a house with a wooden milkbox at the side door. The milkman drove a truck, not a horse, and stopped by a couple times a week. The milkbox had a door that pulled out, making it a cozy place for the cream to freeze and push up over the (glass) bottle. I remember the pleated-edge paper caps that sat like cloche hats atop the frozen cream.
In the summers, before air conditioning, the milkman allowed us to climb into the cool back of his truck, which smelled awful, but the ice was remarkably clear and therefore desirable, so, much to my mother’s horror, we sometimes got chips to chew on.
Then I looked out the window again, and everything was still brown and grey.
Perhaps you too have beanie memories, dear reader. I have several. One was back in fourth grade, when Confirmation was a significant milestone, and we were dressed accordingly in gorgeous white robes, with sleeves that flowed like the Mississippi. I loved those sleeves, and I flapped around in happy contentment. I was a butterfly queen in that white robe. But then they crowned me with a beanie. A beanie! In Holy Ghost red, more’s the ignominy! I went from queen to fungus in an instant.
I still think the Holy Ghost laughed uncontrollably.
No extra charge, dear reader, for reflections of kitchen cabinets and muttering be-robed photographer. I tried a bajillion times, but the wall kept moving.
When the snow that you ordered didn’t come, but boxes did, then what? Well, this is what: two ultra-chill femmes fatales! The one with magenta hair, a shameless coquette at the front door, and the other, with more sense of decorum, beaming pearls and benevolence in the living room.
But both a testament to defiance. So what if there isn’t snow?
We are in a bleak time. I think I have never felt so angry and so helpless. But here is a new year come upon me to ask what I’ll do about it. How will I be defiant?
May we as writers and readers be defiant, peacefully, creatively, in this new year. I wish you, dear reader, a year of lemon meringue pies!
Looking out the window has become hazardous to my health, dear reader! In the grips of an arctic blast, I am layered like puff pastry, and I do not need to see these frost-footed napping ducks. You may argue for their ready down comforters, but my bones are no warmer for that.